Conflict and Repair in Relationships

Conflict and Repair in Relationships

Is conflict bad.? Let’s talk about conflict, disagreements, fights, mishaps, all these things where two people living together are just are not agreeing and the conversation is not flowing. Often conflict emerges  quickly when we disagree. Things might escalate....
Taking sides | Episode 9

Taking sides | Episode 9

 An enemy is anybody that your partner is complaining about. Sally’s boss challenged her and publicly questioned the quality of her work. When she returned home, she downloaded to her partner. He heard all about her bad experience with the boss. How did he respond ?...
Why Some Couples Can’t Stop Fighting

Why Some Couples Can’t Stop Fighting

Have you noticed that you and your partner fight about the same things over and over again? Are you tired of thinking it’s resolved only to have that same old issue rear it’s ugly head again, and again and again? Are you at a loss as to what to do to get a glimpse of...
Take Your Shadow for A Drink

Take Your Shadow for A Drink

How do you deal with difficult people? Customers? Staff? Siblings or Spouse? Do some people make you growl with anger? Underneath the pretences, the civility, the social etiquette and the mask, there is more. There is YOU, your feelings, emotions and that nagging...